英语版《妙问妙答》(23)
时间:2024-01-20 14:06 来源:未知 作者:达弥卡法师 点击:次
QUESTION: So am I right in saying that insight meditation is to help to make us better, happier individuals? ANSWER: Well, that is a start, a very important start. But meditation has a much loftier aim than that. As our practice matures and our awareness deepens we start to notice that our experience is rather impersonal, that it is actually happening without a ‘me’ making it happen and that there is not even a ‘me’ experiencing it. In the beginning the meditator might just have occasional glimpses of this but in time it will become more pronounced. QUESTION: That sounds rather frightening. ANSWER: Yes, it does, doesn’t it. And in fact when some people first have this experience they may be a little frightened. But soon the fear is replaced by a profound realization – the realization that they are not what they have always taken themselves to be. Gradually the ego begins to weaken and in time it dissolves completely as does the sense of ‘I’, ‘Me’ and ‘Mine.’ It is at this point that the Buddhist’s life and indeed their whole outlook really begins to change. Just consider how many personal, social and even international conflicts have their origins in the ego, in racial or national pride, in the sense of being wronged, humiliated or threatened and in the shrill cry, ‘This is mine!’ ‘That belongs to us!’ According to Buddhism, real peace and happiness can only be found when we discover our true identity. This is what is called enlightenment. QUESTION: That’s a very attractive idea but at the same time it’s a rather alarming one too. How does an enlightened person function without a sense of self or without a sense of ownership? ANSWER: Well, an enlightened person may well ask us, ‘How can you function with a sense of self? How are you able endure all the unpleasantness of fear, jealousy, grief and pride, your own and other people’s? Don’t you ever get sick of the endless scramble to accumulate more and more, of the need to always be better than, or ahead of, the next person, of the nagging feeling that you might just lose it all?’ It seems that enlightened people get along quite alright in life. It’s the unenlightened ones, you and I, who have all the problems and who cause all the problems. QUESTION: I see your point. But how long do you have to meditate for before you become enlightened? ANSWER: It is impossible to say and perhaps it doesn’t matter. Why not start meditating and see where it takes you? If you practice with sincerity and intelligence you might find that it improves the quality of your life considerably. In time you may wish to explore meditation and Dhamma more deeply. Later, it might become the most important thing in your life. Don’t start speculating about or worrying over the higher steps on the path before you have even begun the journey. Take it one step at a time. QUESTION: Do I need a teacher to teach me meditation? ANSWER: A teacher is not absolutely necessary but personal guidance from someone who is familiar with meditation is certainly helpful. Unfortunately, some monks and lay people set themselves up as meditation teachers when they simply don't know what they are doing. Try to pick a teacher who has a good reputation, a balanced personality and who adheres closely to the Buddha's teachings. (责任编辑:admin) |
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